My husband just invited me to his own wedding. That's messed up. Urs, you have to go, and you have to make a mental note of everything. He asked me for your address in order to send an invite, so you officially have no excuse for not being there. Sadly, I will not be in attendance because Dan's wedding is the same day as this other wedding. And I can't skip that one, beacuse I'm the maid of honor.